"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Yeah I just don't approach girls. Every girl I have been with has approached and attacked me first, but that drought is getting annoying.zinc4 said:
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Indian race troll? Besides it's not like there are not lots of black girls in the south.Dhoulmagus said:
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I'm too white for black girlsStagger Lee said:
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But still too black for white girlsDhoulmagus said:
. If you are good looking regardless of your race there's no place in this country where you can't pick up."The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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War Eagle! I was at the Miss. State game last weekend.zinc4 said:
Yeah, War Eagle! That was a good game...Mullen will be fired soon...where did you go after the game? I used to always frequent the bars around Toomer's Corner......you know Skybar?...it used to be the Blue Room back in the day...it was so freakin easy to pull there when it was the Blue Room...lot's of good memories there...Bible_Belt said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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It's fun to see the huge variety of looks amoung the members, and putting a face on the usernames - I am surpriced to see some of you guys having problems with women, after seeing your pictures.
Me too! But it's not the same down here. Up north they approach and are very aggressive and slutty. Down here they are FAR more reserved and not as assertive.Dhoulmagus said:
Keep in mind that the majority of women who approach are aggressive, dominant, crazy, bossy, etc. Players, sluts, AW's, and b!tches approach men a lot. Many of them are all up in the game, and love to tease, AW, or bully.
I was approached constantly up north, but all of the girls who did were ****. Even if you don't HAVE to approach - you should.
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Because unlike men, women are unrealistic. We guys realize that 8-9.x's are rare and can give due credit to males or females both for less than perfection. Females tend to think only 8+'s or guys that look more like you are attractive.European-DJ said:
Women have to settle for the best they can get but because of higher male availability that tends to be 2 points higher than themselves.
Women are supposed to be more attractive than men. When everyone thinks a girl is better looking than a guy she's really equal at best. Especially if you subtract the flattering clothes, make up and long hair. No guy who is about 6 wants a female 4 that he could get, nor should he.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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^ Don't forget the fact that, women finding you attractive doesn't change who THEY are. In fact, the more women who like you - the more **** you have to deal with, and the more ****ty people will be entering your life. Just like, when you're social and popular and out-going, and everyone wants to hang out or be friends. The majority are going to be fake, selfish, judgemental, two-faced, and possibly abusive. Especially when the assertive / aggressive ones usually storm into your life, and think they own everything, and want to have their hand in everything. The more social you are - the more of these ****stick faggots you have to deal with. Or things like ego and competition.
There's definitely more to women, friends, or really anything in life than just initiate success. Attracting people doesn't mean ****... especially when you consider the "high class" types being the worst of 'em all.
There's no guarantees, but there's always struggles. And the grass is definitely not greener on the other side.
There's definitely more to women, friends, or really anything in life than just initiate success. Attracting people doesn't mean ****... especially when you consider the "high class" types being the worst of 'em all.
There's no guarantees, but there's always struggles. And the grass is definitely not greener on the other side.
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I'm 6'2 and weigh around 195 pounds right now...hardly fat...and have lost 20 pounds in the past 2 and a half months...
I wrestled in HS and played a variety of sports...including defensive end on our state championship football team and was a pitcher for our baseball team....and had hardly an ounce of fat...some of the guys i wrestled with were also major college football prospects and went on to play in the SEC have brief NFL careers...physically, they were freaks of nature....and they all agreed wrestling was much tougher thn football.....i would love to see you tell them it was gay....
We had other dumbasses like yourself say oh wrestling is just gay or for fags...then they come in to one practice when we said they couldn't handle it and were on the floor puking at the end of practice.
Our coach would turn the heat up as high as it would go and lock the doors and make you wear about 2-3 sweatshirts with a trash bag over your upper body under the sweats to make it as hot as possible and then would flat out kill us with conditionng and sparring drills...he would literally make you try to quit every practice to weed out the weaker ones...not to mention a lot of our practices would end up in full out fights toward the end as things would get heated often....it was hell at the time...but one thing that i greatly value as an experience.
Not to mention it helped me out in several real life fights when i just took the attacker to the ground and pummeled him instead of taking trading blows standing up.
You are easily the most foolish person on this board Renaldo.....you are 18 right? I would have run circles around you at that age. What sports do you even play besides checking yourself out in the local gym mirror and wondering why everyone thinks you are a douche?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.