"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Checkmate12

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Espi said:
That's a great photo. Who says white men can't jump?

Is that a 10-foot rim?
Thanks bud!
Yeah it is 10 ft.
That pic actually turned out to be quite popular with the ladies on facebook. Haha
 

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Wrestling

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Casual

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Stagger Lee

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floydb25 said:
Hmmmmm... If everyone else is gonna post their fat pics, I might as well do the same. Really not a big fan, though. Don't have ANY pics of the in-shape pimpin' days. :cry:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/75992402@N08/
You look pretty handsome imo. But damn you have some thinning hair. I wouldn't have guessed. A good face compensates for it, but you know what I think how b!tches are about thinning hair.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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XY. said:
Wrestling



Casual

Wrestling is for faggots. You must like grabbing other men a lot.

@Checkmate12: "Suited up"? You aren't even wearing a suit. Nice jump though.
 

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Stagger: Yea, and gray hair, too. My teeth are also ****. But bishes don't care about ****, other than "hot" and "rich". They even said I have nice teeth during infatuation. Everything just slides by when someone's crushing. The biggest ******* is so nice, confused, afraid, and misunderstood.

Thanks for the compliment, but it was a lot better when I was in shape. Still got work to do to get back there again. :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dhoulmagus

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Stagger Lee said:
Location? No way does your looks only get you one girl, at least not in the US.
I live in a very racist part of the south
 

Dhoulmagus

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Espi said:
How many girls have you introduced yourself to in the past week?
I'm in a fraternity, so I am around a lot of girls. However, the girls are either racist or they try and play hard to get. The only girl I was successful with was from California lol.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
Wrestling is for faggots. You must like grabbing other men a lot.

@Checkmate12: "Suited up"? You aren't even wearing a suit. Nice jump though.

stop being a douche renaldo...wrestling is a very tough sport...there is nothing gay about it...by the way, if you are going to post in here, why not post a pic...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GS750

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Espi said:
How many girls have you introduced yourself to in the past week?
I agree. You're in college? You're way better than average in looks. You should be cleaning up with the ladies! Find some non racist ones
 

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GS750 said:
I agree. You're in college? You're way better than average in looks. You should be cleaning up with the ladies!
I'm a black male at a SEC school that worships the old south.
 

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zinc4 said:
stop being a douche renaldo...wrestling is a very tough sport...there is nothing gay about it...by the way, if you are going to post in here, why not post a pic...
Pay no mind to him. He's known to make dumbass comments smh
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I'm in a fraternity, so I am around a lot of girls. However, the girls are either racist or they try and play hard to get. The only girl I was successful with was from California lol.

I went to Auburn University in Alabama (a big SEC school in the most racist state besides maybe Miss) and was in a frat there.....if you want to pull just go to any college campus nightclub and stand around on the edges of the dance floor and wait for the girls who like black guys to gradually come to you...

I am white, but I knew a few black guys around your looks level who pulled like crazy just by literally standing at the edge of this dance floor at this one bar acting aloof and smoking cigarettes......they had a bit a thug or bad boy look going on..nothing over he top, though.....i am not sure where you are...

But black guys do fine in the south from my experience..these guys were pulling 8 and 9s like it was nothing...every night out just by literally standing around looking aloof and letting them come to them...there are a whole set of white girls in the south that get off on the whole forbidden thing of getting with a black guy....you should be tearing it up...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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