"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Espi said:
That's a great photo. Who says white men can't jump?

Is that a 10-foot rim?
Thanks bud!
Yeah it is 10 ft.
That pic actually turned out to be quite popular with the ladies on facebook. Haha
 

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Wrestling

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Casual

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floydb25 said:
Hmmmmm... If everyone else is gonna post their fat pics, I might as well do the same. Really not a big fan, though. Don't have ANY pics of the in-shape pimpin' days. :cry:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/75992402@N08/
You look pretty handsome imo. But damn you have some thinning hair. I wouldn't have guessed. A good face compensates for it, but you know what I think how b!tches are about thinning hair.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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XY. said:
Wrestling



Casual

Wrestling is for faggots. You must like grabbing other men a lot.

@Checkmate12: "Suited up"? You aren't even wearing a suit. Nice jump though.
 

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Stagger: Yea, and gray hair, too. My teeth are also ****. But bishes don't care about ****, other than "hot" and "rich". They even said I have nice teeth during infatuation. Everything just slides by when someone's crushing. The biggest ******* is so nice, confused, afraid, and misunderstood.

Thanks for the compliment, but it was a lot better when I was in shape. Still got work to do to get back there again. :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stagger Lee said:
Location? No way does your looks only get you one girl, at least not in the US.
I live in a very racist part of the south
 

Dhoulmagus

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Espi said:
How many girls have you introduced yourself to in the past week?
I'm in a fraternity, so I am around a lot of girls. However, the girls are either racist or they try and play hard to get. The only girl I was successful with was from California lol.
 

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Ronaldo7 said:
Wrestling is for faggots. You must like grabbing other men a lot.

@Checkmate12: "Suited up"? You aren't even wearing a suit. Nice jump though.

stop being a douche renaldo...wrestling is a very tough sport...there is nothing gay about it...by the way, if you are going to post in here, why not post a pic...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Espi said:
How many girls have you introduced yourself to in the past week?
I agree. You're in college? You're way better than average in looks. You should be cleaning up with the ladies! Find some non racist ones
 

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GS750 said:
I agree. You're in college? You're way better than average in looks. You should be cleaning up with the ladies!
I'm a black male at a SEC school that worships the old south.
 

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zinc4 said:
stop being a douche renaldo...wrestling is a very tough sport...there is nothing gay about it...by the way, if you are going to post in here, why not post a pic...
Pay no mind to him. He's known to make dumbass comments smh
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
I'm in a fraternity, so I am around a lot of girls. However, the girls are either racist or they try and play hard to get. The only girl I was successful with was from California lol.

I went to Auburn University in Alabama (a big SEC school in the most racist state besides maybe Miss) and was in a frat there.....if you want to pull just go to any college campus nightclub and stand around on the edges of the dance floor and wait for the girls who like black guys to gradually come to you...

I am white, but I knew a few black guys around your looks level who pulled like crazy just by literally standing at the edge of this dance floor at this one bar acting aloof and smoking cigarettes......they had a bit a thug or bad boy look going on..nothing over he top, though.....i am not sure where you are...

But black guys do fine in the south from my experience..these guys were pulling 8 and 9s like it was nothing...every night out just by literally standing around looking aloof and letting them come to them...there are a whole set of white girls in the south that get off on the whole forbidden thing of getting with a black guy....you should be tearing it up...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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