"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think how smart are you? Let's see who seems to have the biggest brain here.

Mine I guess was 95 now I am older I guess I am at 90.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When you do mental math are you much better than even smart people?
No joke, at a previous job my coworkers would call me the human calculator because I'd do the math in my head and tell people the answer before a person who was using a calculator could punch in the numbers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No joke, at a previous job my coworkers would call me the human calculator because I'd do the math in my head and tell people the answer before a person who was using a calculator could punch in the numbers.
I have met a lot of grind/book smart people and I have met a few actually high IQ people. You can definitely tell the difference between the two.
 

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What do you think how smart are you? Let's see who seems to have the biggest brain here.

Mine I guess was 95 now I am older I guess I am at 90.
I'm a himbo with minus 165 in IQ but I look like Chad thunderc0ck so I get by fine. :rofl::whistle: Ha ha.
 

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No joke, at a previous job my coworkers would call me the human calculator because I'd do the math in my head and tell people the answer before a person who was using a calculator could punch in the numbers.
That is quite amazing. That means you have good memory too. Can you visualize stuff in your brain like an animation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That is quite amazing. That means you have good memory too. Can you visualize stuff in your brain like an animation?
Sometimes yes...I often can see code like that in my head as I am working to solve programming issues or doing bug fixes.
 

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That is quite amazing. That means you have good memory too. Can you visualize stuff in your brain like an animation?
I can easily do this and calculate equations in my head, so it just proves my point how irrelevant your IQ score is lol.
 

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Sometimes yes...I often can see code like that in my head as I am working to solve programming issues or doing bug fixes.
I have a shiitty memory. There is the memory palace method to keep more things in my mind but it does not work with me. Did you ever try stuff like that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being around those MENSA nutters made me realise of how little importance a 'high' IQ actually is. Having an IQ around 120 plus good social skills will get you much more in life than a 140+ range IQ (which often tends to go with poorer social skills).
For most things in life having an iq of 100 ( which is like slightly above average ) is more than enough

The higher the iq level after that, the more you will go towards the “autistic” side

Most of the wealthy people are not geniuses. Look at bill gates, he made most of the money from parenting software that he did not write

Not even Steve Jobs had a big iq
 

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Being around those MENSA nutters made me realise of how little importance a 'high' IQ actually is. Having an IQ around 120 plus good social skills will get you much more in life than a 140+ range IQ (which often tends to go with poorer social skills).
Seems like there are sometimes trade offs in the brain where some brain functions are bit weaker.

So you are at MENSA that is awesome. Maybe some members hava a chip on their shoulder and migh be to focused on even getting more smarter so social skills get worse. If they might focus on social skills they may get better at it but may diminish in other areas slightly.
 

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For most things in life having an iq of 100 ( which is like slightly above average ) is more than enough

The higher the iq level after that, the more you will go towards the “autistic” side

Most of the wealthy people are not geniuses. Look at bill gates, he made most of the money from parenting software that he did not write

Not even Steve Jobs had a big iq
Though when we look at Elon Musk it seems like he knows quite a lot stuff and learns new stuff from different fields very fast. People who know him tell that.
 

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For most things in life having an iq of 100 ( which is like slightly above average ) is more than enough

The higher the iq level after that, the more you will go towards the “autistic” side

Most of the wealthy people are not geniuses. Look at bill gates, he made most of the money from parenting software that he did not write

Not even Steve Jobs had a big iq
All it means is that you have to work at different things harder than a person with a lower IQ.

I used to get A's in school barely studying or opening a book. Lower IQ people had to study their asses off to get B's or C's sometimes.

I had to work very hard to come out of my introvert shell and learn how to be extroverted when I need to be and be social and learn how to talk with women. That was very difficult for me and I had to work really hard at it. Being in sales was the best thing that happened in that regard...you learn how to interact with people or you don't eat. Forces you to learn and adapt really quick. For some of the other lower IQ people it came easy.

You never have to accept where you are at in life with anything. All this means is that each person will have to work harder at certain things than other things to improve at them, whereas those things come easy for other people.

Now, you may never get to a point where you are as good as someone who it comes naturally to no matter how hard you work at it, but there is no reason you can't greatly improve from where you are at currently.

Lets take golf for example. You might never be a PGA Tour Pro, but if you went out every week and played 4 rounds of golf religiously for a year, you'd notice a huge improvement from where you are now to where you'd be in a year. It's like that with anything in life. If you focus your time and energy on improving in that area, you will improve.

How seriously you take it and how focused you are on doing whatever it takes to improve is usually what separates those who make marked improvement versus those who see little improvement.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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