"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
post any TOUGH questions ever asked to you on a date
- Thread starter verysuave
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
"So where do you take girls on dates?"- that was a **** test, it threw me off guard because i took it as zero interest, but the next day she told a few of my friends we went on a date last night, so don't percieve everything she says to have a meaning.
true romance
Don Juan
My life story is a work in progress, chapter 10 starts with you and...
"What is your experience in sex?"
all my customers left satisfied...I usually leave a smile on their face
Those questions were pretty tough for me to answer "right."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
true romance
Don Juan
My place is right around the corner..care to find out?
forever_young
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Yeah and I'm gonna score tonightjust so suave said:
this should get em
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
betterthandead
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
me (now!) : I'm going to give you one then, it is buggernose.
then make fun of her but make it funny.
originally she said this I crushe my self esteem because of her bad behaviour and non compliant with my request to introduce her to my friend and acted like she was alll that Paris.
true romance
Don Juan
Yes I play cricket.
No Seriously?
I shoot and I score
"So where do you take girls on dates?"-
why do you think we are here..somewhere cheap and it has an escape route.
true romance
Don Juan
we just met...I think you moving to fast for me...
you are not just looking for sex, right?",
Nope, wink*** just looking fun stuff to do
"Why do you have one of those magnum extra large condoms in your walled?" -jk
not sure about the size...but we can find out together