"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
post any TOUGH questions ever asked to you on a date
- Thread starter verysuave
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
"So where do you take girls on dates?"- that was a **** test, it threw me off guard because i took it as zero interest, but the next day she told a few of my friends we went on a date last night, so don't percieve everything she says to have a meaning.
true romance
Don Juan
My life story is a work in progress, chapter 10 starts with you and...
"What is your experience in sex?"
all my customers left satisfied...I usually leave a smile on their face
Those questions were pretty tough for me to answer "right."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
true romance
Don Juan
My place is right around the corner..care to find out?
forever_young
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Yeah and I'm gonna score tonightjust so suave said:
this should get em
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
betterthandead
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
me (now!) : I'm going to give you one then, it is buggernose.
then make fun of her but make it funny.
originally she said this I crushe my self esteem because of her bad behaviour and non compliant with my request to introduce her to my friend and acted like she was alll that Paris.
true romance
Don Juan
Yes I play cricket.
No Seriously?
I shoot and I score
"So where do you take girls on dates?"-
why do you think we are here..somewhere cheap and it has an escape route.
true romance
Don Juan
we just met...I think you moving to fast for me...
you are not just looking for sex, right?",
Nope, wink*** just looking fun stuff to do
"Why do you have one of those magnum extra large condoms in your walled?" -jk
not sure about the size...but we can find out together