"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
post any TOUGH questions ever asked to you on a date
- Thread starter verysuave
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
"So where do you take girls on dates?"- that was a **** test, it threw me off guard because i took it as zero interest, but the next day she told a few of my friends we went on a date last night, so don't percieve everything she says to have a meaning.
true romance
Don Juan
My life story is a work in progress, chapter 10 starts with you and...
"What is your experience in sex?"
all my customers left satisfied...I usually leave a smile on their face
Those questions were pretty tough for me to answer "right."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
true romance
Don Juan
My place is right around the corner..care to find out?
forever_young
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Yeah and I'm gonna score tonightjust so suave said:
this should get em
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
betterthandead
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
me (now!) : I'm going to give you one then, it is buggernose.
then make fun of her but make it funny.
originally she said this I crushe my self esteem because of her bad behaviour and non compliant with my request to introduce her to my friend and acted like she was alll that Paris.
true romance
Don Juan
Yes I play cricket.
No Seriously?
I shoot and I score
"So where do you take girls on dates?"-
why do you think we are here..somewhere cheap and it has an escape route.
true romance
Don Juan
we just met...I think you moving to fast for me...
you are not just looking for sex, right?",
Nope, wink*** just looking fun stuff to do
"Why do you have one of those magnum extra large condoms in your walled?" -jk
not sure about the size...but we can find out together