"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
post any TOUGH questions ever asked to you on a date
- Thread starter verysuave
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
"So where do you take girls on dates?"- that was a **** test, it threw me off guard because i took it as zero interest, but the next day she told a few of my friends we went on a date last night, so don't percieve everything she says to have a meaning.
true romance
Don Juan
My life story is a work in progress, chapter 10 starts with you and...
"What is your experience in sex?"
all my customers left satisfied...I usually leave a smile on their face
Those questions were pretty tough for me to answer "right."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
true romance
Don Juan
My place is right around the corner..care to find out?
forever_young
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Yeah and I'm gonna score tonightjust so suave said:
this should get em
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
betterthandead
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
me (now!) : I'm going to give you one then, it is buggernose.
then make fun of her but make it funny.
originally she said this I crushe my self esteem because of her bad behaviour and non compliant with my request to introduce her to my friend and acted like she was alll that Paris.
true romance
Don Juan
Yes I play cricket.
No Seriously?
I shoot and I score
"So where do you take girls on dates?"-
why do you think we are here..somewhere cheap and it has an escape route.
true romance
Don Juan
we just met...I think you moving to fast for me...
you are not just looking for sex, right?",
Nope, wink*** just looking fun stuff to do
"Why do you have one of those magnum extra large condoms in your walled?" -jk
not sure about the size...but we can find out together