You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, you can tell just from her face that she has a BANGIN body.HandyAndy said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL you don't have to put up a profile, just a photo of them would suffice for this thread. It would help if you had a picture with you and the girl in it I guess but that's not a requirement.r0cky said:WTF will this prove? I can put up some stranger's profile.
I also don't want some of these losers contacting my FB.
No offense to you!
She has some mean Hentai mangas out there!!! Her and Chi Chi, LOLsuavesuave said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ima str8 up pimp said:you must have myspace... Heres my last girl, shes a stripper.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=42986424&albumID=939645&imageID=14499272
Here's the cute lil russian girl I spoke of in my last thread posted, now shes my lil doll.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=324159921&albumID=0&imageID=2853974
This is just an ex girlfriend.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=91782962&albumID=2091958&imageID=27665721
If these can't be seen then someone explain to my how to make a link of the picture on it's own, I dont know how.
here's a pic of me, it's self explanatory.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=78697710&albumID=0&imageID=28576071
This came to mindClick hereBeLoSH said:Jesus christ! Your myspace pic is the funniest thing i've ever seen. What are you trying to achieve exactly with that flash of your stomach? Idiot.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Yup, I'd do em! Good work manbaurman said:Me and my FB & Other spinning plates, etc..
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.