Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah, you can tell just from her face that she has a BANGIN body.HandyAndy said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LOL you don't have to put up a profile, just a photo of them would suffice for this thread. It would help if you had a picture with you and the girl in it I guess but that's not a requirement.r0cky said:WTF will this prove? I can put up some stranger's profile.
I also don't want some of these losers contacting my FB.
No offense to you!
She has some mean Hentai mangas out there!!! Her and Chi Chi, LOLsuavesuave said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ima str8 up pimp said:you must have myspace... Heres my last girl, shes a stripper.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=42986424&albumID=939645&imageID=14499272
Here's the cute lil russian girl I spoke of in my last thread posted, now shes my lil doll.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=324159921&albumID=0&imageID=2853974
This is just an ex girlfriend.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=91782962&albumID=2091958&imageID=27665721
If these can't be seen then someone explain to my how to make a link of the picture on it's own, I dont know how.
here's a pic of me, it's self explanatory.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=78697710&albumID=0&imageID=28576071
This came to mindClick hereBeLoSH said:Jesus christ! Your myspace pic is the funniest thing i've ever seen. What are you trying to achieve exactly with that flash of your stomach? Idiot.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rex Man said:
Yup, I'd do em! Good work manbaurman said:Me and my FB & Other spinning plates, etc..
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.