Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah, you can tell just from her face that she has a BANGIN body.HandyAndy said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LOL you don't have to put up a profile, just a photo of them would suffice for this thread. It would help if you had a picture with you and the girl in it I guess but that's not a requirement.r0cky said:WTF will this prove? I can put up some stranger's profile.
I also don't want some of these losers contacting my FB.
No offense to you!
She has some mean Hentai mangas out there!!! Her and Chi Chi, LOLsuavesuave said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ima str8 up pimp said:you must have myspace... Heres my last girl, shes a stripper.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=42986424&albumID=939645&imageID=14499272
Here's the cute lil russian girl I spoke of in my last thread posted, now shes my lil doll.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=324159921&albumID=0&imageID=2853974
This is just an ex girlfriend.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=91782962&albumID=2091958&imageID=27665721
If these can't be seen then someone explain to my how to make a link of the picture on it's own, I dont know how.
here's a pic of me, it's self explanatory.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=78697710&albumID=0&imageID=28576071
This came to mindClick hereBeLoSH said:Jesus christ! Your myspace pic is the funniest thing i've ever seen. What are you trying to achieve exactly with that flash of your stomach? Idiot.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rex Man said:
Yup, I'd do em! Good work manbaurman said:Me and my FB & Other spinning plates, etc..
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.