"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah, you can tell just from her face that she has a BANGIN body.HandyAndy said:
EDIT: I was being sarcastic but actually if she lost weight, lost the glasses and wore some makeup she could be pretty attractive "to me".
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ima str8 up pimp
Banned
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ndID=42986424&albumID=939645&imageID=14499272
Here's the cute lil russian girl I spoke of in my last thread posted, now shes my lil doll.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=324159921&albumID=0&imageID=2853974
This is just an ex girlfriend.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...dID=91782962&albumID=2091958&imageID=27665721
If these can't be seen then someone explain to my how to make a link of the picture on it's own, I dont know how.
here's a pic of me, it's self explanatory.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...&friendID=78697710&albumID=0&imageID=28576071
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BeLoSH
Don Juan
ima str8 up pimp said:
Jesus christ! Your myspace pic is the funniest thing i've ever seen. What are you trying to achieve exactly with that flash of your stomach? Idiot.
The top girl is decent, hb7 at most. The russian thing is a dog though. I wouldn't touch her with the longest of poles.
This came to mindClick hereBeLoSH said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x252/dotheopposite/amy_hat.jpg
http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x252/dotheopposite/amy_azz.jpg
The room used to be a kid's room, thus the mural on the wall, which is visible in both pics. Also, for anyone who hasn't seen me post about mma, she is wearing my hat.
And what the hell, while I am in the mood, here's a pic of my current gf's favorite bra. Enjoy.
http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x252/dotheopposite/gf_boobs.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v297/jrdesigns1985/img562.jpg
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No, but seriously you can critisize them all you desire, just don't get weird on me if you know one of them and player hate on mine. Thanks in Advance
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http://i323.photobucket.com/albums/nn451/rexman2000/last.jpg
http://i323.photobucket.com/albums/nn451/rexman2000/Ready.jpg
http://i323.photobucket.com/albums/nn451/rexman2000/Sake.jpg
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.