"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Possible to gain muscle mass without equipment?

Grimple

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I can't afford any weight equipment or gym membership. I go to high school and don't have a car. My school has a weight room but it is reserved for weights class and football. (I was stupid and didn't think about joining weights when I signed up for classes.)

Now I want to gain muscle because I am really skinny. I have been doing pushups (I can do 26-2 max) and pulls ups. I can do about 11 regular pullups and only 3 palm out pull ups. I don't really see any gain in mass though.

Everyone tells me heavy weight + low repitions = muscle mass. But I have no way of getting "heavy weight" due to my lack of access to muscle building machines.

So is there anything that I can do? Or am I ****ed? Can I do just body weight exercises? Please help!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warboss Alex

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Grimple said:
I can't afford any weight equipment or gym membership. I go to high school and don't have a car. My school has a weight room but it is reserved for weights class and football. (I was stupid and didn't think about joining weights when I signed up for classes.)

Now I want to gain muscle because I am really skinny. I have been doing pushups (I can do 26-2 max) and pulls ups. I can do about 11 regular pullups and only 3 palm out pull ups. I don't really see any gain in mass though.

Everyone tells me heavy weight + low repitions = muscle mass. But I have no way of getting "heavy weight" due to my lack of access to muscle building machines.

So is there anything that I can do? Or am I ****ed? Can I do just body weight exercises? Please help!
Hate to tell you this, but you can't gain muscle without progressive resistance (weights).

Do you have access to buckets/sand/cement? You can make ghetto weights, that's how I started, lol.

But ultimately, you need access to a wide range of weights. Ask your parents for a home gym for Christmas? Save up? Get a job?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Just get a used set of weights and/or bench, the kind made of plastic (they're cheap). Check you local paper or Craigslist, you may even be able to find a set for free if you just pick them up.
 

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Check your:

YMCA
Community college (mine had a 'fitness' class where all you do is punch in your time card whenever you would use their gym)
Appartment, friends apartments, random apartments that may have a fitness center.
Community center

Try doing track and field (short distance only), and wrestling. It won't anywhere as efficient as weight lifting, but you'll bulk up some muscel.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cuzza

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Without any equipment and if you can't be arsed with the 'ghetto weights' (haha), then you won't really get very far. All I can think of really is...

Pullups, wide grip and close grip. Variations of it.
Dips, by finding two things that'll support your weight... I could do them on my kitchen top if I want.

Can't think of anything else, but what's been said will do: Back, biceps, forearms, chest, triceps... practically your upper body. It might not do them particularly well, but it beats nothing.
 

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Check out The Naked Warrior By Pavel. His website is www.dragondoor.com. He has a few other books that focus on strength. He suggests doing one legged squats(pistols), pullups and one armed pushups basically. He tells you how to work up to it so you are using progressive weight up until you can do an actual rep of the one legged or one armed pushups and then you need weight on your back, etc. Not sure its the best for mass but it'll definitely make you fitter and stronger.

Celadus
 
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