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Possible Orbit situation? How proceed

VAboi

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
She putting herself into your orbit?

Or is she sticking you into hers?

When she cancelled the date 2 hours before did she counter offer with another time she would like to go out with you? If not then i would say no matter how appologetic she seems, her interest is too low for it to be legit.

Then she added you on snap chat. Did she ask you out on snap chat? Set up the next date? I would view the adding you to snap chat is her sticking you into her orbit. She is keeping you interested through manipulation.

I would not ask her out again. There is nothing her that says she is interested in dating you. Ghost her until she reaches out to you. If she is interested, she will wonder where you went after a few days. If she doesn't reachout then you have your answer. Next.
 

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She has added you to her orbit. Ask her out again. if she declines and doesn't counter move on.
Sorry i responded to his post before reading yours. I agree with your orbit assesment
 

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If she didnt reschedule, don't waste your time. Seriously.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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