"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Possible Orbit situation? How proceed

VAboi

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude99

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
She putting herself into your orbit?

Or is she sticking you into hers?

When she cancelled the date 2 hours before did she counter offer with another time she would like to go out with you? If not then i would say no matter how appologetic she seems, her interest is too low for it to be legit.

Then she added you on snap chat. Did she ask you out on snap chat? Set up the next date? I would view the adding you to snap chat is her sticking you into her orbit. She is keeping you interested through manipulation.

I would not ask her out again. There is nothing her that says she is interested in dating you. Ghost her until she reaches out to you. If she is interested, she will wonder where you went after a few days. If she doesn't reachout then you have your answer. Next.
 

dude99

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She has added you to her orbit. Ask her out again. if she declines and doesn't counter move on.
Sorry i responded to his post before reading yours. I agree with your orbit assesment
 

CMNILS87

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If she didnt reschedule, don't waste your time. Seriously.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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