"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Possible Orbit situation? How proceed

VAboi

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude99

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Sup guys, I asked this girl out 2 weeks ago and she accepted but canceled 2 hours before the date, she was apologetic and it seemed like a legit excuse.

Anyway, she then added me on snapchat 2 days after canceling the date.

I think of this as her putting herself into my orbit. Because, other girls that I've asked out never added me on snapchat. Only girls that I've dated or girls that I've ****ed have added me on snapchat. *I didn't date or **** this girl yet.

I'm thinking of asking her out on Tuesday, probably bantering for a few texts then asking her out on Tuesday.

Is this a good course of action? Or should I simply ask her when she's free? Or not ask her out at all.

Do you think this is a case of orbit or proximity?
She putting herself into your orbit?

Or is she sticking you into hers?

When she cancelled the date 2 hours before did she counter offer with another time she would like to go out with you? If not then i would say no matter how appologetic she seems, her interest is too low for it to be legit.

Then she added you on snap chat. Did she ask you out on snap chat? Set up the next date? I would view the adding you to snap chat is her sticking you into her orbit. She is keeping you interested through manipulation.

I would not ask her out again. There is nothing her that says she is interested in dating you. Ghost her until she reaches out to you. If she is interested, she will wonder where you went after a few days. If she doesn't reachout then you have your answer. Next.
 

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She has added you to her orbit. Ask her out again. if she declines and doesn't counter move on.
Sorry i responded to his post before reading yours. I agree with your orbit assesment
 

CMNILS87

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If she didnt reschedule, don't waste your time. Seriously.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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