"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Possible Bi-Polar Girl...

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I've been with Bi-Polar girls before, and it has always turned out horrible... but uh... here is what makes me think she is Bi-Polar... you tell me?

I'm flirting with her and kinoing her, and then maybe we'll get focused on something and stop and I'll start again and she gets pissed...

I'm walking down the hallway with her (i'm ADD [attention blah blah disorder]) and I'm just looking around checking out everything going on in the hallway-- and she gets pissed because i'm not looking at her... then like 30 seconds later she is pissed because as she is about to leave i look her straight in the eyes for like 8sec as i'm walking off-- she is like, why are you always staring at me? wtf?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Sounds like you got a pyscho on your hands.
 

CapiCrimini

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Bi-polar...

meaning they have mood swings...

from what you described it doesn't sound bi-polar more hormonal or just how her behavior is.

Most bi-polar people have longer moods then a few senconds... It could be that when you stopped kissing she got intrested in the other thing and didn't want to mack anymore...

bi-polar people tend to have paternized mood changes that take place over a weekly period... meaning if her moods are changing every few minutes or when a new event happens then it's probably not bi-polar... it could be though.... Since I don't know her I can't tell.

If she takes pills, you shouldn't notice a difference between her and a normal chick... if they find the right pill that is.
 

jonny football hero

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I dunno. Does she take lithium?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CapiCrimini

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****s the devil... makes you gain weight like crazy... my mom was skinny as hell like 105 she took litium and gained over 100 pounds... form the medicine... It's one of the side-effects along with being really thirsty... I took the stuff for a while too... not worht it as all... so they hooked me up with a pill that does the same thing but supresses your apitite instead... needless to say i'm off pills now... but I hated the constnt blood draws with lithium too... Pain in the ass.
 

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That really sucks for you dude. One of the managers at my last job was Bi-polar. That was the craziest b1tch I've ever met.

There were numerous occasions where she would go from laughing and smiling to screaming and crying within minutes. I felt bad for her, but damn what a b1tch.
 

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"I'm walking down the hallway with her (i'm ADD [attention blah blah disorder]) and I'm just looking around checking out everything going on in the hallway-- and she gets pissed because i'm not looking at her... then like 30 seconds later she is pissed because as she is about to leave i look her straight in the eyes for like 8sec as i'm walking off-- she is like, why are you always staring at me? wtf?"




Every girl is bi-polar..... :D
 

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lol ditch the *****.
I wouldn't puttup with that unless she was extremely hott...in which I'd hit it and quit it :) as fast as possible.
 

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Bi-polar? Errm.

Insecure more like it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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