"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Possible Bi-Polar Girl...

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I've been with Bi-Polar girls before, and it has always turned out horrible... but uh... here is what makes me think she is Bi-Polar... you tell me?

I'm flirting with her and kinoing her, and then maybe we'll get focused on something and stop and I'll start again and she gets pissed...

I'm walking down the hallway with her (i'm ADD [attention blah blah disorder]) and I'm just looking around checking out everything going on in the hallway-- and she gets pissed because i'm not looking at her... then like 30 seconds later she is pissed because as she is about to leave i look her straight in the eyes for like 8sec as i'm walking off-- she is like, why are you always staring at me? wtf?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like you got a pyscho on your hands.
 
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Bi-polar...

meaning they have mood swings...

from what you described it doesn't sound bi-polar more hormonal or just how her behavior is.

Most bi-polar people have longer moods then a few senconds... It could be that when you stopped kissing she got intrested in the other thing and didn't want to mack anymore...

bi-polar people tend to have paternized mood changes that take place over a weekly period... meaning if her moods are changing every few minutes or when a new event happens then it's probably not bi-polar... it could be though.... Since I don't know her I can't tell.

If she takes pills, you shouldn't notice a difference between her and a normal chick... if they find the right pill that is.
 
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I dunno. Does she take lithium?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lithium?
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****s the devil... makes you gain weight like crazy... my mom was skinny as hell like 105 she took litium and gained over 100 pounds... form the medicine... It's one of the side-effects along with being really thirsty... I took the stuff for a while too... not worht it as all... so they hooked me up with a pill that does the same thing but supresses your apitite instead... needless to say i'm off pills now... but I hated the constnt blood draws with lithium too... Pain in the ass.
 
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That really sucks for you dude. One of the managers at my last job was Bi-polar. That was the craziest b1tch I've ever met.

There were numerous occasions where she would go from laughing and smiling to screaming and crying within minutes. I felt bad for her, but damn what a b1tch.
 
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"I'm walking down the hallway with her (i'm ADD [attention blah blah disorder]) and I'm just looking around checking out everything going on in the hallway-- and she gets pissed because i'm not looking at her... then like 30 seconds later she is pissed because as she is about to leave i look her straight in the eyes for like 8sec as i'm walking off-- she is like, why are you always staring at me? wtf?"




Every girl is bi-polar..... :D
 
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lol ditch the *****.
I wouldn't puttup with that unless she was extremely hott...in which I'd hit it and quit it :) as fast as possible.
 
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Bi-polar? Errm.

Insecure more like it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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