"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Believe or not if you go to this is your brain on porn.com
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
I can't find the page but I remember the blogger on this site http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ likening porn to beta conditioning. Another man is fvcking that hot chick while you're jacking off. Our brains read that as, "He's the alpha male and we're the beta who can only experience sexual release with this woman by being a spectator." Anyways I say if you want to watch porn make some with your chick. That's what I do and it makes sex a thousand times more awesome because I'm already conditioned to getting off from her.
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I try not to partake in this filth. It has ruined American culture so why contribute?
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Agree 100%
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Porn is toxic pleasure. It's insidious because it is 1) so commonplace and easily accessible, 2) very pleasurable and addicting, and 3) you don't "see" the damage it is doing until it is already done.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
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I realized that after getting sex regularly with girls, the desire to watch porn sensibly decrease to almost none and even when you happen to watch it, you somehow dont relate as before, in terms of desire to fap or arousal.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
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You shouldn't look at porn because you are horny or anything like that. It is wrong and you know it is wrong in the back of your head but you do it anyway. That is why it is toxic.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
speed dawg
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No clue what this thread is about, but there is no damn way I'm clicking a link from a random sosuave post entitled 'porn'.