"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Believe or not if you go to this is your brain on porn.com
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
I can't find the page but I remember the blogger on this site http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ likening porn to beta conditioning. Another man is fvcking that hot chick while you're jacking off. Our brains read that as, "He's the alpha male and we're the beta who can only experience sexual release with this woman by being a spectator." Anyways I say if you want to watch porn make some with your chick. That's what I do and it makes sex a thousand times more awesome because I'm already conditioned to getting off from her.
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I try not to partake in this filth. It has ruined American culture so why contribute?
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Agree 100%
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Porn is toxic pleasure. It's insidious because it is 1) so commonplace and easily accessible, 2) very pleasurable and addicting, and 3) you don't "see" the damage it is doing until it is already done.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
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I realized that after getting sex regularly with girls, the desire to watch porn sensibly decrease to almost none and even when you happen to watch it, you somehow dont relate as before, in terms of desire to fap or arousal.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
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You shouldn't look at porn because you are horny or anything like that. It is wrong and you know it is wrong in the back of your head but you do it anyway. That is why it is toxic.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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No clue what this thread is about, but there is no damn way I'm clicking a link from a random sosuave post entitled 'porn'.