"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Fatal Jay
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Believe or not if you go to this is your brain on porn.com
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
I can't find the page but I remember the blogger on this site http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ likening porn to beta conditioning. Another man is fvcking that hot chick while you're jacking off. Our brains read that as, "He's the alpha male and we're the beta who can only experience sexual release with this woman by being a spectator." Anyways I say if you want to watch porn make some with your chick. That's what I do and it makes sex a thousand times more awesome because I'm already conditioned to getting off from her.
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I try not to partake in this filth. It has ruined American culture so why contribute?
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Agree 100%
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Porn is toxic pleasure. It's insidious because it is 1) so commonplace and easily accessible, 2) very pleasurable and addicting, and 3) you don't "see" the damage it is doing until it is already done.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.
I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.
Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
Who Dares Win
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I realized that after getting sex regularly with girls, the desire to watch porn sensibly decrease to almost none and even when you happen to watch it, you somehow dont relate as before, in terms of desire to fap or arousal.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
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You shouldn't look at porn because you are horny or anything like that. It is wrong and you know it is wrong in the back of your head but you do it anyway. That is why it is toxic.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.
We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.
Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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No clue what this thread is about, but there is no damn way I'm clicking a link from a random sosuave post entitled 'porn'.