“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Believe or not if you go to this is your brain on porn.com

It shows that porn damages your brain also. What I mean by that is it creates erectile dysfunction whenever your about to have sex with real women because you use up your endorphins from the options you have of viewing different types of porn instead of focusing on one physical real woman.
 

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I can't find the page but I remember the blogger on this site http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ likening porn to beta conditioning. Another man is fvcking that hot chick while you're jacking off. Our brains read that as, "He's the alpha male and we're the beta who can only experience sexual release with this woman by being a spectator." Anyways I say if you want to watch porn make some with your chick. That's what I do and it makes sex a thousand times more awesome because I'm already conditioned to getting off from her.
 

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I try not to partake in this filth. It has ruined American culture so why contribute?
 

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Porn is toxic pleasure. It's insidious because it is 1) so commonplace and easily accessible, 2) very pleasurable and addicting, and 3) you don't "see" the damage it is doing until it is already done.

YourBrainOnPorn is a great website.

I've been watching porn since I was about 14 off and on, and those pathways are so engraved into my brain that the only way I can reliably abstain is to set written goals for myself (30 day, 90 days, etc). It's easy once I'm past the first week, and I feel so much healthier mentally. I don't obsess about it, I don't need to jack off very often, and I naturally just think about sex with my girlfriend when I'm horny. Sex itself is much more pleasurable as well when you are totally focused on that REAL woman in front of you.

Porn is one of the banes of American civilization.
 

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I completely cut out porn 6 months ago...a week after my 33rd birthday. No videos, no images, nothing. That stuff is toxic and will eventually kill your sex life.
 

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GS750 said:
I completely cut out porn 6 months ago...a week after my 33rd birthday. No videos, no images, nothing. That stuff is toxic and will eventually kill your sex life.

It does, cutting out porn completely actually turns you back into full alpha mode. Keep watching porn enough and you start picking up female traits more and more.
 

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I realized that after getting sex regularly with girls, the desire to watch porn sensibly decrease to almost none and even when you happen to watch it, you somehow dont relate as before, in terms of desire to fap or arousal.

It seems like the brain has two different circuits and the one about porn is more related to pleasure seeking than sexual release and libido.
 

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You shouldn't look at porn because you are horny or anything like that. It is wrong and you know it is wrong in the back of your head but you do it anyway. That is why it is toxic.

My foreign wife has never seen a porno in her life. If she found I was hiding porn on the computer she would leave me. One of her hot friends was in a LTR and she caught him with porn, and she left him forever. LATINA's don't mess around.

We do plan to go to the porn store together and get a movie for fun but we have not gotten around to it. I am not that excited to get her to watch porn.

Your best bet is to focus on being the guy the porn girls are with instead of wasting time watching that crap. Once you become that guy it is unbelievable. You can get them to do everything you see in the porn video.
 

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No clue what this thread is about, but there is no damn way I'm clicking a link from a random sosuave post entitled 'porn'.
 
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