She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Be careful what you use in supposed good conjunction with God's name.Chaotixxx said:It seriously is. Discuss.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yea but that richest man probably had like 12 wives...Nighthawk said:I grew up in the seventies when porn was a ripped up bit of Mayfair (printed soft porn) in some wasteland or a two second full frontal in a foreign movie.
A hundred years ago the richest man in the world couldn't get better than some naughty etchings.
Now every spotty un-humpable teen with internet access has streamed hardcore in all varieties and live cam-whores for free. Count your blessings.
This is the biggest AFC move yet - a dude buys porn for a girl and not for himself, and spends $60 at that!STR8UP said:Jeez.....went to the naughty store with my ex g/f and she wanted a DVD, but according to her the chicks HAD to be hot, so I ended up spending like $60 on ONE stupid movie. The chicks WERE hot but that was definitely not the best 60 bucks I ever spent.
Last Man Standing said:This is the biggest AFC move yet - a dude buys porn for a girl and not for himself, and spends $60 at that!
I never bought a porn movie or magazine in my life!! God's gift to men is women - not hors!!!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lmao, I clicked the link in your sig and the first thing I see is free XXX downloads. Clown.jesusrules said:i actually dont like it, its a waste of time and money. i would rather spend my money on something way better than a stupid porn dvd.
so to me its not a gift from god.
If you can read this thread, then it is free. (refer to jesusrules' sig) When did money ever come into the picture?Last Man Standing said:This is the biggest AFC move yet - a dude buys porn for a girl and not for himself, and spends $60 at that!
I never bought a porn movie or magazine in my life!! God's gift to men is women - not hors!!!
Only fools pay for porn.jesusrules said:i actually dont like it, its a waste of time and money. i would rather spend my money on something way better than a stupid porn dvd.
so to me its not a gift from god.
I've wondered about that. If I get a hooker and have a camera man, is it legal? Either way the women are still getting paid for sex.lordson said:porn stars are just prostitutes
:kick:STR8UP said:Jeez.....went to the naughty store with my ex g/f and she wanted a DVD, but according to her the chicks HAD to be hot, so I ended up spending like $60 on ONE stupid movie. The chicks WERE hot but that was definitely not the best 60 bucks I ever spent.