"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Porn Is God's Gift to Men
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
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tj
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Some guy on another board said he worked as a camera operator on porn movies...he said alot of "girls" online porn are really transvetites.
dont know for sure..but he sounded pretty legit..just saying.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
navyseal2101
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comic_relief
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forget porn.
comic_relief
thats why 70% of internet content is porn. i mean, it doesn't take a genius to figure out that men love porn.
sex is great, but porn lets you glimpse into the world of sexual possibilities that you probably wont experience in your real life.
A hundred years ago the richest man in the world couldn't get better than some naughty etchings.
Now every spotty un-humpable teen with internet access has streamed hardcore in all varieties and live cam-whores for free. Count your blessings.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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There is lots of types of porn that is out there - so I'm not sure about what porn you are talking about - but when I get to hate 'normal' women for rejecting me then on specific dates I think that porn is a good outlet or 'break' from all the suffering that I have to endure trying to find a half-decent girl out there.
So, it my way of saying, I dont have a girlfriend, and girls are all rejecting, dumping or fvcking with my head, so you just relax and just look at some porn because hey, you cant win all the time - that's why you have porn.
jesusrules
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so to me its not a gift from god.
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This is the biggest AFC move yet - a dude buys porn for a girl and not for himself, and spends $60 at that!STR8UP said:
I never bought a porn movie or magazine in my life!! God's gift to men is women - not hors!!!
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Last Man Standing said:
i agree man.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lmao, I clicked the link in your sig and the first thing I see is free XXX downloads. Clown.jesusrules said:
If you can read this thread, then it is free. (refer to jesusrules' sig) When did money ever come into the picture?Last Man Standing said:
Porn is good. Anyone reading this (male or female) who claims they don't watch porn this day in age are liars. BUT like all good things, it should be enjoyed in moderation.
Its drug-like in nature, Instant gratification. Compounded by the fact that most people lack real sex-lives, it becomes a revolving door and before you know it you end up here looking at this thread, reading about how it comprises 70% of the internet. Its the circle of life! :crackup:
No replacement for the real thing however :yes:
Maxtro
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Only fools pay for porn.jesusrules said:
I've wondered about that. If I get a hooker and have a camera man, is it legal? Either way the women are still getting paid for sex.lordson said:
Don Juanabbe
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:kick:STR8UP said: