That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.WTF?
He is actually banned as well. Thought this was a nonsense post at first.
What is up? Any mods got something to say on banning the most useful poster on the website?
The word "faggot" was to get you to stop thinking in the poor way that you where (IE: getting phvcked in the a$$ by HER). It was to motivate one, and if you didn't agree with his message you could very well not listen to him.You realize that you are banning someone on the level of Bonecracker, or Pook?
Merely because he uses the word "faggot"?
Come on, guys. I thought this place was better than that. And honestly, it really has been, as far as I have experienced it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea, great wisdom IF you agreed with him and thought LTRs were carp. Otherwise you were all sorts of ugly names.I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.
Wow. This site does not ban men posting about:He was banned for repeatedly making personal attacks on other members. We are still in process of deciding how long it will be for.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No, I dont think you disagreed with lefty, it appeared as if you missed missed that he said it was temporary.You don't think that I disagreed with him before?
I have argued with him. We are both arseholes in our way.
Who cares? Value is value.
You called me names before too. You think I hold it against you?Get over it, people. Value is value. Take people for what they are, not for what they aren't.
Some guys merely don't like the ego challenge of someone like that. They don't realise that challenge is good for their game.
Suspending him is really not good. If it's a week or whatever, then fine.
If it's longer, then the frame of this website is determined by the frame of it's posters.
And that guy's frame was damn useful to have around here.
oh hell...it's about to be come a hash tag.....lolFree Poon King.
We disagreed sometimes, but the person with the most Likes on SS (around 1900) can't be wrong.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If there was one member on SS I'd sleep with, it'd definitely be me. I already won myself over though and have been sleeping with myself for almost 18 years. feelsgoodmanNo homo, but if I was going to sleep with one male SS member, it would be Poon King.
Lol, I called you "Barney Fife" a few times, not "beta faggot" over and over and over.And you have gotten "offensive" when I have questioned your frame. .
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.