When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.WTF?
He is actually banned as well. Thought this was a nonsense post at first.
What is up? Any mods got something to say on banning the most useful poster on the website?
The word "faggot" was to get you to stop thinking in the poor way that you where (IE: getting phvcked in the a$$ by HER). It was to motivate one, and if you didn't agree with his message you could very well not listen to him.You realize that you are banning someone on the level of Bonecracker, or Pook?
Merely because he uses the word "faggot"?
Come on, guys. I thought this place was better than that. And honestly, it really has been, as far as I have experienced it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yea, great wisdom IF you agreed with him and thought LTRs were carp. Otherwise you were all sorts of ugly names.I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.
Wow. This site does not ban men posting about:He was banned for repeatedly making personal attacks on other members. We are still in process of deciding how long it will be for.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No, I dont think you disagreed with lefty, it appeared as if you missed missed that he said it was temporary.You don't think that I disagreed with him before?
I have argued with him. We are both arseholes in our way.
Who cares? Value is value.
You called me names before too. You think I hold it against you?Get over it, people. Value is value. Take people for what they are, not for what they aren't.
Some guys merely don't like the ego challenge of someone like that. They don't realise that challenge is good for their game.
Suspending him is really not good. If it's a week or whatever, then fine.
If it's longer, then the frame of this website is determined by the frame of it's posters.
And that guy's frame was damn useful to have around here.
oh hell...it's about to be come a hash tag.....lolFree Poon King.
We disagreed sometimes, but the person with the most Likes on SS (around 1900) can't be wrong.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If there was one member on SS I'd sleep with, it'd definitely be me. I already won myself over though and have been sleeping with myself for almost 18 years. feelsgoodmanNo homo, but if I was going to sleep with one male SS member, it would be Poon King.
Lol, I called you "Barney Fife" a few times, not "beta faggot" over and over and over.And you have gotten "offensive" when I have questioned your frame. .
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.