Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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im shocked
 

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WTF?

He is actually banned as well. Thought this was a nonsense post at first.

What is up? Any mods got something to say on banning the most useful poster on the website?
I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.
 

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He was banned for repeatedly making personal attacks on other members. We are still in process of deciding how long it will be for.
 

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You realize that you are banning someone on the level of Bonecracker, or Pook?

Merely because he uses the word "faggot"?

Come on, guys. I thought this place was better than that. And honestly, it really has been, as far as I have experienced it.
The word "faggot" was to get you to stop thinking in the poor way that you where (IE: getting phvcked in the a$$ by HER). It was to motivate one, and if you didn't agree with his message you could very well not listen to him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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@deesade @logicallefty said it was only a suspension. He"ll be back.

Hopefully he will stop calling people names. Mind you, I have ZERO beef with his content. In fact, I think the biggest issue people had was the constant name calling. It is unnecessary.
 

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I agree. For someone partaking in multi-dating or plates, all you had to do is listen to him. He had the formula.
Yea, great wisdom IF you agreed with him and thought LTRs were carp. Otherwise you were all sorts of ugly names.

Im all for what you guys are trying to accomplish here. Its necessary. But this is a community. Y'all don't have to agree, but at least be respectful (that's my chick taking right there :) )
 

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He was banned for repeatedly making personal attacks on other members. We are still in process of deciding how long it will be for.
Wow. This site does not ban men posting about:

- being emotionally abused by women,
- being taken advantage of by women
- being laughed at by women
- saving women
- spending all your money on women
- having your life completely destroyed by women

but the best poster ever uses colour language that helps almost everyone on sosuave, that is too much? Either his posts hit too close to home for moderators or sosuave doesn't care about helping men, its a "feel good about yourself" site. I often wonder how you guys survive in the real world. :eek:

Brutal.
 

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Big supporter of Poon King. I think this is small tho. It'll probably be a week and TBH the absence will show the quality material he brings and possibly pull the blanket off some poster's true agendas. He's taken a break on his own terms before and came back so the board will survive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Free Poon King.

We disagreed sometimes, but the person with the most Likes on SS (around 1900) can't be wrong.
 

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You don't think that I disagreed with him before?

I have argued with him. We are both arseholes in our way.

Who cares? Value is value.

You called me names before too. You think I hold it against you? :D Get over it, people. Value is value. Take people for what they are, not for what they aren't.

Some guys merely don't like the ego challenge of someone like that. They don't realise that challenge is good for their game.

Suspending him is really not good. If it's a week or whatever, then fine.

If it's longer, then the frame of this website is determined by the frame of it's posters.

And that guy's frame was damn useful to have around here.
No, I dont think you disagreed with lefty, it appeared as if you missed missed that he said it was temporary.
I think a lot of people are here to learn and by calling them beta faggots you put them on the defensive and nothing productive occurs after that.
I think Poon has a lot of wisdom and he could certainly help guide people. He just prefers to take their inventory when they dont agree that spinning plates is the only way to be. The conversation gets shut down before much productivity can be had.

Maybe a solution is to have two sub forums, one for LTRs and one for Plating, and then the general forum where everything is open for fair discussion. I just think things should be kept productive. You guys should be helping each other as much as possible (there I go having estrogen again!)
 

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Free Poon King.

We disagreed sometimes, but the person with the most Likes on SS (around 1900) can't be wrong.
oh hell...it's about to be come a hash tag.....lol
 

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Hmm agree PKs a good poster. I do think the mods have to hold the line on personal abuse. Because where would it end.

It also drags threads down into a swamp of recriminations
 

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Poon King will pass this mere sh1t test and come back stronger than ever.

The non-believers crucified and nailed Jesus to the cross and how wrong they were when he rose again.

#freepoonking
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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God dammit, now I have to wait for him to get unbanned till I get his response from my thread. And we'll probably both forget about that thread anyway if it's for a while.
 

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No homo, but if I was going to sleep with one male SS member, it would be Poon King.
If there was one member on SS I'd sleep with, it'd definitely be me. I already won myself over though and have been sleeping with myself for almost 18 years. feelsgoodman
 

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What the hell? His posts were gold and he gets banned for saying "faggot"?

Count me in as one of his supporters.
 

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And you have gotten "offensive" when I have questioned your frame. .
Lol, I called you "Barney Fife" a few times, not "beta faggot" over and over and over.
And, if I'm being honest, I'm still betting on Barney ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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