You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/CuriousGirl said:Who is Pook? I've heard his username thrown around a lot on here. And OP, easy on the commas!![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you know why I never post topics related to how to pick up women? It's because I've read these books. What drives me fvcking ape**** is the guys who come straight to the forums asking "hurrrrr what did I do wrong". I want to scream "READ THE ****ING DJ BIBLE MORON". You can usually tell they never have. It really should be a requirement before signup.SandHawk said:Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.
And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
the DJ bible is acutally not very obvious to new people to find it (you dont naturally look at the bottom of the page much) it needs to be clearly explained on a sticky on the main forum... someone needs to create a good quality sticky thread for it!SandHawk said:Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.
And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
Roissy's articles, somehow, give me some sense of hopelessness and unavoidable doom about my situation. Somehow, he comes across for me as saying that busting your ass trying to get better with women and in life using game can only get you so far and, if you're a extreme case, there's pretty much no hope for you to even hit big leagues because you're a stinking dreg that is more likely to commit suicide than score by getting lucky.If you want to read someone current who is Pook like in terms of breaking down women's behaviours and tells you why they do what they do, I highly recommand reading Roissy's blog
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.