You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/CuriousGirl said:Who is Pook? I've heard his username thrown around a lot on here. And OP, easy on the commas!![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you know why I never post topics related to how to pick up women? It's because I've read these books. What drives me fvcking ape**** is the guys who come straight to the forums asking "hurrrrr what did I do wrong". I want to scream "READ THE ****ING DJ BIBLE MORON". You can usually tell they never have. It really should be a requirement before signup.SandHawk said:Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.
And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
the DJ bible is acutally not very obvious to new people to find it (you dont naturally look at the bottom of the page much) it needs to be clearly explained on a sticky on the main forum... someone needs to create a good quality sticky thread for it!SandHawk said:Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.
And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
Roissy's articles, somehow, give me some sense of hopelessness and unavoidable doom about my situation. Somehow, he comes across for me as saying that busting your ass trying to get better with women and in life using game can only get you so far and, if you're a extreme case, there's pretty much no hope for you to even hit big leagues because you're a stinking dreg that is more likely to commit suicide than score by getting lucky.If you want to read someone current who is Pook like in terms of breaking down women's behaviours and tells you why they do what they do, I highly recommand reading Roissy's blog
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.