“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whatever, happened to him? Will, he ever be back?? I'd really, like to talk to him, but I don't want to, bother him if he is sick of helping. So, let me know the status, of Pook.

Thanks,

James N.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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He's long gone. Read the book of pook. That's about all you can do.
 

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I'd also like to know what happened to him... I have heared that he turned depressed and bitter. If that happened, I don't know why, maybe he just didn't internalize the (great) advice he himself wrote. Even if he turend bitter, I still think his advice is good, he turning bitter does nothing to the quality of his threads. (IMO). Or did I hear wrong?

BTW why THE HELL are you typing like that?????????
 
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Stinks

Yeah, I heard Pook became bitter with the newbs. However, I just wanted to find out for sure.
 

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i heard he bought an island and lives in the pacific ocean. or is in jail.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pook's advice has been by far the most helpful I have seen. Read the book of pook.... and then read it 4 more times.
 

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The vatican sued him for use of their trademarks on bible themes and terminology.

Or so i heard.
 

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Last heard from him about 2 years ago when he abandoned his blog.

http://dapook.blogspot.com/

If you want to read someone current who is Pook like in terms of breaking down women's behaviours and tells you why they do what they do, I highly recommand reading Roissy's blog.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He is like the Jesus of this site. He spoke in parables. Click on the Dj bible on the bottom of the screen, and read some of his work. Very talented writer.
 
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dude........crossboss.........just by the way you post on this forum, you sound like such a careful "don't wanna offend anyone" nice guy, to the EXTREME.

Why have you not changed your attitude and personality in the FIVE FVCKING YEARS that you've been here?????

you are TOO nice of a pvssy, I actually feel bad for being honest with you!!!!!
 

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Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.

And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
 

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Nobody knows what he looks like. He has facial reconstructive surgery every three years.

But yeah. Pook knew his stuff. Its amazing how many people here completely ignore all his advice though and disregard the DJ Bible, in particular the parts where he informs the reader that looks don't mean jack.
 

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SandHawk said:
Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.

And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
Do you know why I never post topics related to how to pick up women? It's because I've read these books. What drives me fvcking ape**** is the guys who come straight to the forums asking "hurrrrr what did I do wrong". I want to scream "READ THE ****ING DJ BIBLE MORON". You can usually tell they never have. It really should be a requirement before signup.

I love confronting posts, but only when they are constructive. I don't mind being called out on my game. It is in my best interest to have people who know what they're doing confront me on my faults.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SandHawk said:
Well, it would have been a very good reason to be honest. Most people on these boards nowadays don't read the bible, the book of pook or anti-dump.

And when they post a question and people respond with a reply that they don't seem to like or is too confronting, they get all defensive and ignore whatever advice was given.
the DJ bible is acutally not very obvious to new people to find it (you dont naturally look at the bottom of the page much) it needs to be clearly explained on a sticky on the main forum... someone needs to create a good quality sticky thread for it!
 

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Yeah you're right, Rescue Mission

I really have lost a lot of courage, over the years because I used to approach girls and they would ignore me. I used to go to the clubs, on the weekends. I tried, to approach people, in school and I kind of got a bad rep.

Most people, made it really hard, to talk to and I made a few friends. The reason, I don't read the bible, is because I don't want to do too much reading and no action. Even, though lately, I haven't done much action, at all.

I also, kind of blew it at school, because my focus was on, women. I'll try and continue working out on weights. Maybe, do a little running, to improve my chances with women in the future.

Do you guys, really think I should read the whole bible before approaching women? I will if that's what it takes.... Even though I thought, you should read the bible as you approach women. Read the bible slowly over time.
 

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The dj bible is cool if you're out to get women, but in my opinion, you should read some inner game stuff... For me, it helped me much more. MUCH more. Plus, good inner game will get you more girls then good outer game.(And i think we all agree on this!) I would focus more on myself, and less on the girls... and also remind yourself that by focusing on yourself, the girls will come eventually. Just try not to make them your main focus, you'll suffer tremendously if you do.(Don't you agree?) Try to make yourself happy even if you don't have a girl... Just remind yourslef, the girls will come. And you can be cool without some girls not liking you anyways. What do they know? As long as YOU think you're a good person, doesn't matter what others think. Listen to them and all, but it's your final opinion that counts the most. But by the way you type (something tells me this!!) you should make it a priority to improve your inner game first, and give less importance to girls now.
 

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Thats pretty much all what the DJB is, groovy.
 

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If you want to read someone current who is Pook like in terms of breaking down women's behaviours and tells you why they do what they do, I highly recommand reading Roissy's blog
Roissy's articles, somehow, give me some sense of hopelessness and unavoidable doom about my situation. Somehow, he comes across for me as saying that busting your ass trying to get better with women and in life using game can only get you so far and, if you're a extreme case, there's pretty much no hope for you to even hit big leagues because you're a stinking dreg that is more likely to commit suicide than score by getting lucky.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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