"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poll : is this a 9 or a 10 ?

is this a 9 or a 10 ?


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Lookatu

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I said this before 5"11 is solid

On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
It's sad that male's fragile ego's has them hamstering about height. I bet women don't nearly hamster as much about weight themselves. Any gal that is less than 5'8" that asks about height is automatically disqualified in my books.

I've been out with some gals that were an inch or two taller than me. It really doesn't matter when you're in the horizontal position. That's what I tell them too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko

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On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
5'6" is a nice height for a woman, I'd have to agree with that. My preference would probably be 5'4" to 5'6", but it's nowhere close to being a dealbreaker. I don't think height for women is as big of an attraction factor as it is for men, I doubt if anyone will disagree with that. Maybe if a woman is freakishly tall it comes into play.
 

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On my own personal scale, she'd be a 5. Oh, now I know that for most men, she's the bee's knees, but I like a feminine physique where the shoulders aren't too wide, and the ratio of waist to hips is low, so she would not do it for me. Now if these characteristics were considered to be not be a negative, then she's a 10 based on very good facial beauty and exceptional fitness. To me, she would be the kind of gal that wouldn't be embarrassing in the last to have around, and would definitely suffice to other women as being super hot (i.e., a man that has shown the ability to get that would be considered very high value by other women).

I go for women that I have the exact characteristics that I find most attractive, but that other man might not, which to me optimizes my getability. An extreme case of this would be a man that *genuintely* likes fatties - because so many other men are disgusted by this, such a man would optimize his getability by going for fatties.
 

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she looks like your typical women who exercise to much. solid 8. if she stopped the gym routine for a few months and just ate well she probably bump up to a 9.
Because so many women exercise too much? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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andreihaha

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I said this before 5"11 is solid

On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
I'm 6'2'' and women love my height. There is no "ideal height". As long as you're charming, any imperfection seems to fade in their eyes.
 

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You guys I am curious to have your opinion on this chick from all side


She is all over this Youtube channel half naked in every position
SwimOutletGear

Pretty, but with you guys I don't know what's good anymore.
 

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I would put her in the 7 - 8 category however I can't really judge that well from the pictures. She's a slim chick but attractive. Definitely sexable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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