cloneofstenyhoyer
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Poll: How many of you guys have dated a woman TALLER than you?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
I have and ill do it again 
. Its nice social proof imo . I look like a pimp
. Its nice social proof imo . I look like a pimp "You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
No, I have not.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yep, but by only an inch or two when she was wearing heels, no big deal.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Yep I have on a few occasions. Taller girls have trouble finding guys willing to go after them. Most of the time the male ego makes them feel inferior if the fairer sex trumps them in some way. That spells free lunch for me, since I check my ego at the door for many issues.
Kaim Argonar
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I'm only attracted to short women, all the girls I ever dated were shorter than me. I looooved it when these tiny girls rose their head to look at me, and when they sought the comfort of my arms.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
I used to fool myself into think I dug the shorter chicks since I'm a short guy. I soon figured, I'll go for whatever I like regardless of height. If they don't have a problem with it, I won't either.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
cloneofstenyhoyer
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bump cause I need a bigger sample size.
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Sir I
Don Juan
not seriously dated a taller girl as in stands WAY OUT but yes a few who are slightly taller than I am.. and MAN it has it's funny moments. but I don't really care about that, though I do avoided walking around with a few of them as I had been with 2 who were really taller but than again I don't do much like going shopping with girls or go take walk or something, I mostly go over to their place or they come over to my place.
Purple-Haze
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I personally couldn't date a man shorter than me.
I have a thing for tall men.
BUT, if a cute shortie were to be super cool, charming and charismatic, I may just ditch my silly wants and give him a chance.
I have a thing for tall men.
BUT, if a cute shortie were to be super cool, charming and charismatic, I may just ditch my silly wants and give him a chance.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heh, the percentage surprised me.
Me personally, I have a short-girl fetish hehe. She has to be able to give me a BJ without needing to kneel down.
Nah just kidding, but I really love super short women. Some guys love em just a bit shorter.
I'm surprised how anyone could like a taller woman than himself, but then again tastes vary.
Me personally, I have a short-girl fetish hehe. She has to be able to give me a BJ without needing to kneel down.
Nah just kidding, but I really love super short women. Some guys love em just a bit shorter.
I'm surprised how anyone could like a taller woman than himself, but then again tastes vary.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
I'm 6 feet, so hardly any chick is taller than me.
Munson
Don Juan
I have only dated women taller than me and I'm only 5'6". I absolutely love it. The last girl I dated was 5'10". I just have a thing for amazon women. The taller the better. Haha.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I am currently dating a woman that is the same height...
comic_relief
comic_relief
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.