"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Poll: How many of you guys have dated a woman TALLER than you?

Have you dated a woman TALLER than yourself?

  • Yes I have

    Votes: 22 37.3%
  • No I have not

    Votes: 37 62.7%

  • Total voters
    59

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

DoctorLW

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2001
Messages
395
Reaction score
0
Never have, never will. Although, luckily I'm tall enough where this is not ever really a problem.
 

Gubby

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
601
Reaction score
18
Age
36
Location
Spain
Not a sexy thing. She'd have to seriously make up for it on other points as far as I'm concerned.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Yep, but by only an inch or two when she was wearing heels, no big deal.
 

PRMoon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2003
Messages
3,739
Reaction score
41
Age
45
Location
-777-Vegas-777-
Yep I have on a few occasions. Taller girls have trouble finding guys willing to go after them. Most of the time the male ego makes them feel inferior if the fairer sex trumps them in some way. That spells free lunch for me, since I check my ego at the door for many issues.
 

Kaim Argonar

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2007
Messages
108
Reaction score
0
I'm only attracted to short women, all the girls I ever dated were shorter than me. I looooved it when these tiny girls rose their head to look at me, and when they sought the comfort of my arms.
 

SickAgain

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2007
Messages
414
Reaction score
11
Location
Orange County
I used to fool myself into think I dug the shorter chicks since I'm a short guy. I soon figured, I'll go for whatever I like regardless of height. If they don't have a problem with it, I won't either.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Sir I

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2008
Messages
75
Reaction score
1
Age
44
Location
Netherlands
not seriously dated a taller girl as in stands WAY OUT but yes a few who are slightly taller than I am.. and MAN it has it's funny moments. but I don't really care about that, though I do avoided walking around with a few of them as I had been with 2 who were really taller but than again I don't do much like going shopping with girls or go take walk or something, I mostly go over to their place or they come over to my place.
 

ProDJ26

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 25, 2006
Messages
751
Reaction score
31
I'm short and used to prefer girls shorter than me, till I realise that the last few women that I've snagged were taller than me lol guess it's those long legs

:up:
 

Purple-Haze

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
489
Reaction score
12
I personally couldn't date a man shorter than me.

I have a thing for tall men.

BUT, if a cute shortie were to be super cool, charming and charismatic, I may just ditch my silly wants and give him a chance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

AlekNovy

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 12, 2008
Messages
29
Reaction score
2
Heh, the percentage surprised me.

Me personally, I have a short-girl fetish hehe. She has to be able to give me a BJ without needing to kneel down.

Nah just kidding, but I really love super short women. Some guys love em just a bit shorter.

I'm surprised how anyone could like a taller woman than himself, but then again tastes vary.
 

The Deacon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2007
Messages
452
Reaction score
7
Location
Utah
I'm 6 feet, so hardly any chick is taller than me.
 

Munson

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 7, 2008
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Location
California
I have only dated women taller than me and I'm only 5'6". I absolutely love it. The last girl I dated was 5'10". I just have a thing for amazon women. The taller the better. Haha.
 

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
I am currently dating a woman that is the same height...

comic_relief
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
they want a big daddy to look up to. All my women who have call me daddy are shorter than me. Yes. they call me daddy, and I likes it. :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top