Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Poll: How many of you guys have dated a woman TALLER than you?

Have you dated a woman TALLER than yourself?

  • Yes I have

    Votes: 22 37.3%
  • No I have not

    Votes: 37 62.7%

  • Total voters
    59

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DoctorLW

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Never have, never will. Although, luckily I'm tall enough where this is not ever really a problem.
 

Gubby

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Not a sexy thing. She'd have to seriously make up for it on other points as far as I'm concerned.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Yep, but by only an inch or two when she was wearing heels, no big deal.
 

PRMoon

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Yep I have on a few occasions. Taller girls have trouble finding guys willing to go after them. Most of the time the male ego makes them feel inferior if the fairer sex trumps them in some way. That spells free lunch for me, since I check my ego at the door for many issues.
 

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I'm only attracted to short women, all the girls I ever dated were shorter than me. I looooved it when these tiny girls rose their head to look at me, and when they sought the comfort of my arms.
 

SickAgain

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I used to fool myself into think I dug the shorter chicks since I'm a short guy. I soon figured, I'll go for whatever I like regardless of height. If they don't have a problem with it, I won't either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sir I

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not seriously dated a taller girl as in stands WAY OUT but yes a few who are slightly taller than I am.. and MAN it has it's funny moments. but I don't really care about that, though I do avoided walking around with a few of them as I had been with 2 who were really taller but than again I don't do much like going shopping with girls or go take walk or something, I mostly go over to their place or they come over to my place.
 

ProDJ26

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I'm short and used to prefer girls shorter than me, till I realise that the last few women that I've snagged were taller than me lol guess it's those long legs

:up:
 

Purple-Haze

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I personally couldn't date a man shorter than me.

I have a thing for tall men.

BUT, if a cute shortie were to be super cool, charming and charismatic, I may just ditch my silly wants and give him a chance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AlekNovy

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Heh, the percentage surprised me.

Me personally, I have a short-girl fetish hehe. She has to be able to give me a BJ without needing to kneel down.

Nah just kidding, but I really love super short women. Some guys love em just a bit shorter.

I'm surprised how anyone could like a taller woman than himself, but then again tastes vary.
 

The Deacon

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I'm 6 feet, so hardly any chick is taller than me.
 

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I have only dated women taller than me and I'm only 5'6". I absolutely love it. The last girl I dated was 5'10". I just have a thing for amazon women. The taller the better. Haha.
 

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I am currently dating a woman that is the same height...

comic_relief
 

Warrior74

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they want a big daddy to look up to. All my women who have call me daddy are shorter than me. Yes. they call me daddy, and I likes it. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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