AllDay85
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poll: How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dhoulmagus
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I like grabbing more
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Not that hard actually, I make it hard enough for that slap sound to happen but once the hand its there I leave it touching the skin and slowly move my fingers toward her ass, they usually keep sucking but try to stop with finger with one of their hands.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the ass and the face so I leave it alone.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
My smacks gradually go from mild to hard depending what her attitude/threshold is. Also I try to change up the intensity to keep her guessing...
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Depends on the women... if she likes it rough that's what I give her.... I am very generous.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I'm not happy until it's bruised. That way everytime she sits down she's reminded who her real daddy is.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I've had the most success with this mentality. It's almost like they aren't satisfied unless it hurts to sit down.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Rainman4707
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not to hard.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
That only lasts like 20 minutes. If you don't bruise it, she won't tell all her friends or think about you every time she sits down.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.