AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Poll: How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dhoulmagus
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I like grabbing more
Who Dares Win
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Not that hard actually, I make it hard enough for that slap sound to happen but once the hand its there I leave it touching the skin and slowly move my fingers toward her ass, they usually keep sucking but try to stop with finger with one of their hands.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the ass and the face so I leave it alone.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
My smacks gradually go from mild to hard depending what her attitude/threshold is. Also I try to change up the intensity to keep her guessing...
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Depends on the women... if she likes it rough that's what I give her.... I am very generous.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I'm not happy until it's bruised. That way everytime she sits down she's reminded who her real daddy is.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I've had the most success with this mentality. It's almost like they aren't satisfied unless it hurts to sit down.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rainman4707
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not to hard.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
That only lasts like 20 minutes. If you don't bruise it, she won't tell all her friends or think about you every time she sits down.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.