AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Poll: How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dhoulmagus
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I like grabbing more
Who Dares Win
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Not that hard actually, I make it hard enough for that slap sound to happen but once the hand its there I leave it touching the skin and slowly move my fingers toward her ass, they usually keep sucking but try to stop with finger with one of their hands.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the ass and the face so I leave it alone.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
My smacks gradually go from mild to hard depending what her attitude/threshold is. Also I try to change up the intensity to keep her guessing...
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Depends on the women... if she likes it rough that's what I give her.... I am very generous.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I'm not happy until it's bruised. That way everytime she sits down she's reminded who her real daddy is.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I've had the most success with this mentality. It's almost like they aren't satisfied unless it hurts to sit down.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rainman4707
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not to hard.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
That only lasts like 20 minutes. If you don't bruise it, she won't tell all her friends or think about you every time she sits down.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.