AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Poll: How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dhoulmagus
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I like grabbing more
Who Dares Win
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Not that hard actually, I make it hard enough for that slap sound to happen but once the hand its there I leave it touching the skin and slowly move my fingers toward her ass, they usually keep sucking but try to stop with finger with one of their hands.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
I do it mostly when they are doggy style with me in front of their faces, I dont do it so much while banging.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I can't tell the difference between the ass and the face so I leave it alone.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
How hard do you smack her ass during sex?
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
Skinny girls with bony butts can hurt your hand. Fat asses are a lot nicer to spank.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
My smacks gradually go from mild to hard depending what her attitude/threshold is. Also I try to change up the intensity to keep her guessing...
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Depends on the women... if she likes it rough that's what I give her.... I am very generous.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I'm not happy until it's bruised. That way everytime she sits down she's reminded who her real daddy is.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
I've had the most success with this mentality. It's almost like they aren't satisfied unless it hurts to sit down.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rainman4707
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not to hard.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
That only lasts like 20 minutes. If you don't bruise it, she won't tell all her friends or think about you every time she sits down.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.