Hi everyone. I'm wondering if you can give me some advice, because it's bothering me....
There's this girl I know. Lookswise she's a 7. I mean, I think she's attractive, but she's not as pretty as some other girls. But personality wise she's like an 11. Couldn't be better. I'm in a club with her, and I have a situation where I sometimes walk 20 minutes home with her. As you can imagine, we're starting to get friendlier.
I'm also seeing another girl, several years older than me and slightly prettier than the first girl. And dancing, there are a couple really hot girls I'm not doing too badly with.
My problem is this- If I kiss the first girl, she's the type of girl that would start getting really attached to me. She will probably wind up being my girlfriend if I don't watch out. My problem is, I don't know if I could do better than her at this point in time or not. It would definitely limit my options, that's for sure.
On the other hand, I've never kissed a girl yet, period (just being honest), so part of me wonders if you have to put in your time with a girl that's not a 9 or a 10, before you can move onto that level.
See if I don't pursue her, she'll probably be a little hurt, but also, I may be shooting myself in the foot if I can't do better.
The other thing is, if I get together with her and then break up, I'll still have to talk to her the rest of the year because of this organization.
The last piece of info is, the first girl is a couple years older than me and she'll be gone after this year, if we were to get together, it would be over by next year.
All factors considered, what would you do?
thnks.
There's this girl I know. Lookswise she's a 7. I mean, I think she's attractive, but she's not as pretty as some other girls. But personality wise she's like an 11. Couldn't be better. I'm in a club with her, and I have a situation where I sometimes walk 20 minutes home with her. As you can imagine, we're starting to get friendlier.
I'm also seeing another girl, several years older than me and slightly prettier than the first girl. And dancing, there are a couple really hot girls I'm not doing too badly with.
My problem is this- If I kiss the first girl, she's the type of girl that would start getting really attached to me. She will probably wind up being my girlfriend if I don't watch out. My problem is, I don't know if I could do better than her at this point in time or not. It would definitely limit my options, that's for sure.
On the other hand, I've never kissed a girl yet, period (just being honest), so part of me wonders if you have to put in your time with a girl that's not a 9 or a 10, before you can move onto that level.
See if I don't pursue her, she'll probably be a little hurt, but also, I may be shooting myself in the foot if I can't do better.
The other thing is, if I get together with her and then break up, I'll still have to talk to her the rest of the year because of this organization.
The last piece of info is, the first girl is a couple years older than me and she'll be gone after this year, if we were to get together, it would be over by next year.
All factors considered, what would you do?
thnks.
