"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nosmirk

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im 60kg, and 170cm.

60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.

for an asian, is that skinny?


edit: thanks to MrS for the conversion :D
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You'll get more replies if you list it in pounds and feet.

Also, what does being Asian have to do with it?
 

cuzza

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Asians are in general, quite a skinny race, very slight builds.
 

Falcon

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I guess if he meets the standards of Asians (whatever that may be), it's ok then? I say forget the standards, go for what you want to look like. But I still don't get it though. If you are skinny, you will look skinny. Doesn't matter what race you are.
 

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No, that isn't skinny, per say.
Asians in general are of a slighter build.
60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm asian, between 5 ft 9 and 10 and weigh 69 kg which is about 150 lbs.. I don't consider myself skinny
 

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Thats skinny for anybody, however I don't see where this "rating" comes into play. I'm 5'9 - 150 and I consider myself very skinny...
 

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On paper it certainly sounds "thin." However, it's hard to say really without a visual. I'm 18 lbs heavier and 2 inches shorter than you and I consider myself "thin" - it's all in the mind's eye.
 

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If at 5'8 your measurements are less than

Bicep Flexed - 13"
Thighs 22"
Calves 15"
Waist 30"
Chest 38"


If you're less than that, then you're quite thin. I'm around those #s in pretty much everything, whether its a tad over or under. I feel as if I'm skinny as f*ck.
 

cuzza

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I'm 5'10, 154 pounds and I'm not skinny in the slightest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you incredibly buff?

Are you fat?

If not, you're skinny.

You may not be anorexically skinny, but you're skinny.
 
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