"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nosmirk

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im 60kg, and 170cm.

60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.

for an asian, is that skinny?


edit: thanks to MrS for the conversion :D
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Falcon

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You'll get more replies if you list it in pounds and feet.

Also, what does being Asian have to do with it?
 

cuzza

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Asians are in general, quite a skinny race, very slight builds.
 

Falcon

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I guess if he meets the standards of Asians (whatever that may be), it's ok then? I say forget the standards, go for what you want to look like. But I still don't get it though. If you are skinny, you will look skinny. Doesn't matter what race you are.
 

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No, that isn't skinny, per say.
Asians in general are of a slighter build.
60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kRisk

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I'm asian, between 5 ft 9 and 10 and weigh 69 kg which is about 150 lbs.. I don't consider myself skinny
 

Skilla_Staz

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Thats skinny for anybody, however I don't see where this "rating" comes into play. I'm 5'9 - 150 and I consider myself very skinny...
 

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On paper it certainly sounds "thin." However, it's hard to say really without a visual. I'm 18 lbs heavier and 2 inches shorter than you and I consider myself "thin" - it's all in the mind's eye.
 

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If at 5'8 your measurements are less than

Bicep Flexed - 13"
Thighs 22"
Calves 15"
Waist 30"
Chest 38"


If you're less than that, then you're quite thin. I'm around those #s in pretty much everything, whether its a tad over or under. I feel as if I'm skinny as f*ck.
 

cuzza

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I'm 5'10, 154 pounds and I'm not skinny in the slightest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you incredibly buff?

Are you fat?

If not, you're skinny.

You may not be anorexically skinny, but you're skinny.
 
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