"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nosmirk

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im 60kg, and 170cm.

60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.

for an asian, is that skinny?


edit: thanks to MrS for the conversion :D
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Falcon

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You'll get more replies if you list it in pounds and feet.

Also, what does being Asian have to do with it?
 

cuzza

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Asians are in general, quite a skinny race, very slight builds.
 

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I guess if he meets the standards of Asians (whatever that may be), it's ok then? I say forget the standards, go for what you want to look like. But I still don't get it though. If you are skinny, you will look skinny. Doesn't matter what race you are.
 

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No, that isn't skinny, per say.
Asians in general are of a slighter build.
60kg = 132lbs
170cm = 5"8 and a bit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm asian, between 5 ft 9 and 10 and weigh 69 kg which is about 150 lbs.. I don't consider myself skinny
 

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Thats skinny for anybody, however I don't see where this "rating" comes into play. I'm 5'9 - 150 and I consider myself very skinny...
 

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On paper it certainly sounds "thin." However, it's hard to say really without a visual. I'm 18 lbs heavier and 2 inches shorter than you and I consider myself "thin" - it's all in the mind's eye.
 

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If at 5'8 your measurements are less than

Bicep Flexed - 13"
Thighs 22"
Calves 15"
Waist 30"
Chest 38"


If you're less than that, then you're quite thin. I'm around those #s in pretty much everything, whether its a tad over or under. I feel as if I'm skinny as f*ck.
 

cuzza

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I'm 5'10, 154 pounds and I'm not skinny in the slightest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you incredibly buff?

Are you fat?

If not, you're skinny.

You may not be anorexically skinny, but you're skinny.
 
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