"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am a sophomore in hs. a senior girl asked me to prom and i said yes. i have absolutely no idea what i am doing. how do i prepare. can anybody help!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Experience

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Isn't prom more than 5 months from now? I wouldn't stress myself out over what to do, it's still very early and things will change.

Things you'll need:

Clothes (Tux)
Vehicle
Corsage
Tickets
Before plan (Restaurant?)
After plan (Party?...etc.)
 

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i know its a while away, but i have a problem of waiting til the last minute to do things, which probably isnt a good idea.
 

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The Exp. Gave some good starting tips. But you should be more specific on what you want to know.
 

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basically everything. i need to know what to do to prepare, get everything planned, who pays for what.....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah man. If you actually tried to help yourself here, and break this down, we could help you.
 

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Prom in itself is really more for the girls than the guys. In fact, for us it's usually pretty easy, I'm going off the list posted by the Experience:

Clothes (Tux): Do this like a month before prom(make sure enough time to get it tailored)Basically you need a tux. Don't go too formal (not like black and white). At prom last year I went to men's wearhouse and talked with this guy Randy. He was pretty much the chillest guy ever; and he helped me figure out what was popular at the time because he had helped so many kids earlier in the year. Basically, ask those guys for help, they know what they're doing (most of the time).

Vehicle- She asked you, she can take care of it. Probably she'll want a limo or something with her friends. If not just pick her up (do you have your licence as a sophomore?)

Corsage_ Usually like two or three weeks before prom. Find out the color of her dress. Go to your local florist and tell them you want a wristlet thing (I still don't know the proper term, but they'll know what you mean) and tell them you want it to match her dress. They'll take care of the rest.

Tickets-Buy tickets from your school....need I say more?

Before plan (Restaurant?)For me, a group of guys all met at one kids house for pictures and dinner. IMO, its better than a "romantic dinner" with just the two of you because itll loosen you up and give you confidence since your with friends
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After plan (Party?...etc.)Party like theres no tomorrow.

Good luck and remember to have fun. Soo many guys freak out. Just chill, every high school kid is in the same boat as you. Just dance your ass off, have fun, and get laid ;)

~Pdizzzzzzle
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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