PLEASE HELP: Can't keep it up when I need to

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

Watsup. I'm a 20 year old healthy guy that doesn't smoke. I've had sex once with a girl and was able to keep it up for about 5 minutes and then it would go soft in the middle of having sex. Another time I was about to **** a girl and I couldn't even get it up. I was a little drunk that time(7 beers) but not really ****ed up. Then last night I was kinda buzzed(5 shots) but really not that ****ed up again. This chick and I were totally gonna ****, but I could not keep it up. It was hard for about a minute and then it just went soft on me. I had to say that I was just way drunk and sometimes I can't get it up when I drink: super embarrassing. So pretty much I should have had 3 nice ****s but for some reason my **** can't stay up when I'm about to have sex with a girl. I mean she gave me dome and everything and it wouldn't work. When I'm at home by myself I can keep it hard as long as I want. WTF is wrong with me?????????

 

[Dannyrt34]

That's what happens when the girl is not attractive, lol.

Joking aside, sounds like you're having some anxiety before you have sex. Which explains why you have no problem poppin wood at home. You're apparently worrying about something you shouldn't be at the wrong time, causing you to lose your boner.

You really need to set all your worries aside and just relax and go for it, man!

 

[eaglez1177]

If you can still have a normal boner when your at home, then this is ALL in your head. Your thinking way too much. You got too much on your mind. Relax, take a deep breath, and dont get so worked up.

 

[Captain]

Like the others said, it'll all in your head, it's anxiety.

You need to stop thinking so much while having sex.

Alcohol can also interfere with erections.

 

[pua1989]

Go Chargers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Leporello]

What is it, No Erection Week? This is really getting out of hand...

 

[DonGorgon]

alcahol and many drugs is bad for erections... anxiety is also bad for keeping erections.. poor diet is bad.. so fix those things then if you still are not good enough try stamina Rx .. it works..

 

[LaDanian Tomlinson]

What if I can't just think about sex and get a boner without touching myself? Is that bad? If I stroke it I can't keep it up but I can't just get it up with my mind.

Am I the only one with this problem? All I want to do is have sex and when I finally get the chance I can't keep it up. It's bull ****. So other than not having anxiety and not thinking about it, is there any other suggestions?

 

[Dannyrt34]

If you smoke, quit.
By some good multivitamins (I use Mega-Men Sport, their great)
Exercise - Increases bloodflow and decreases anxiety - 2 things that will help you pop a woody.

I do these and I pop boners randomly, even when I'm not thinking of anything sexual.

 

[DonGorgon]

ltivitamins (I use Mega-Men Sport, their great)
Exercise - Increases bloodflow and decreases anxiety - 2 things that will help you pop a woody..

Yes that is good stuff dude.. its expensive but it really works and you can feel it...