"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PLEASE HELP: Can't keep it up when I need to

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Watsup. I'm a 20 year old healthy guy that doesn't smoke. I've had sex once with a girl and was able to keep it up for about 5 minutes and then it would go soft in the middle of having sex. Another time I was about to **** a girl and I couldn't even get it up. I was a little drunk that time(7 beers) but not really ****ed up. Then last night I was kinda buzzed(5 shots) but really not that ****ed up again. This chick and I were totally gonna ****, but I could not keep it up. It was hard for about a minute and then it just went soft on me. I had to say that I was just way drunk and sometimes I can't get it up when I drink: super embarrassing. So pretty much I should have had 3 nice ****s but for some reason my **** can't stay up when I'm about to have sex with a girl. I mean she gave me dome and everything and it wouldn't work. When I'm at home by myself I can keep it hard as long as I want. WTF is wrong with me?????????
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's what happens when the girl is not attractive, lol.

Joking aside, sounds like you're having some anxiety before you have sex. Which explains why you have no problem poppin wood at home. You're apparently worrying about something you shouldn't be at the wrong time, causing you to lose your boner.

You really need to set all your worries aside and just relax and go for it, man!
 
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If you can still have a normal boner when your at home, then this is ALL in your head. Your thinking way too much. You got too much on your mind. Relax, take a deep breath, and dont get so worked up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is it, No Erection Week? This is really getting out of hand...
 
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alcahol and many drugs is bad for erections... anxiety is also bad for keeping erections.. poor diet is bad.. so fix those things then if you still are not good enough try stamina Rx .. it works..
 
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What if I can't just think about sex and get a boner without touching myself? Is that bad? If I stroke it I can't keep it up but I can't just get it up with my mind.

Am I the only one with this problem? All I want to do is have sex and when I finally get the chance I can't keep it up. It's bull ****. So other than not having anxiety and not thinking about it, is there any other suggestions?
 
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If you smoke, quit.
By some good multivitamins (I use Mega-Men Sport, their great)
Exercise - Increases bloodflow and decreases anxiety - 2 things that will help you pop a woody.

I do these and I pop boners randomly, even when I'm not thinking of anything sexual.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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