tony-montana
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where the fuk is he? he aint replied once. i hope that means he's out fixing himself.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PLEASE be honest: am I unattractive?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Guys check out this picture:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...366&albumID=0&imageID=16524673#a=0&i=12691471
He looks sooo much better in this one right?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...366&albumID=0&imageID=16524673#a=0&i=12691471
He looks sooo much better in this one right?
tony-montana
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LOL. he so looks like a country boy.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
zzeitgeist
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To answer your original question and based solely on a couple photos, you sir are NOT attractive.
HOWEVER
You can definitely do a lot for yourself in terms of grooming, tan, muscle and most importantly clothing, back it up with some confidence and you can still get laid.
Good luck
HOWEVER
You can definitely do a lot for yourself in terms of grooming, tan, muscle and most importantly clothing, back it up with some confidence and you can still get laid.
Good luck
jafyk
Master Don Juan
Do us a favor when you've gotten your new look please post another pic so we can compare and contrast.
I don't believe you when you say that girls don't look at you. I can tell that you have the looks but they are hidden by your style. You can make some changes that will make you more attractive to girls. Here's what I think you should do:
1. I know you like your moustache but it really NEEDS TO GO. A 23-year-old does not need a moustache. You don't need the moustache to get into an R-rated movie or buy alcohol because you are already of legal age. The less hair on your face, the better you will look. Right now, the moustache makes you look too old, too serious. A girl likes a guy who looks mature but not someone who looks like he can be her dad. Being clean-shaven is key.
2. I also think you should get a haircut. Your hairstyle and sideburns make you look as though you are a part of the 1960s era. Step into the 21st century. Get your hair cut LOW. Not bald but LOW, like this photo below for example:
http://cm1.dotspotter.com/media/0/31/11/Paul_Walker.0.0.0x0.280x280.jpeg
Get the haircut and either trim the sideburns or get rid of them altogether. Also, as someone here has mentioned, remove any hair between your eyebrows.
3. Wear some casual clothes. Regular T-shirts, light and navy blue jeans, and some short sleeved collar shirts. You should also try buying some khaki pants. You don't have to wear the latest brand names. Just something that looks presentable. The shirt you have on in the photo where you are lecturing is the best. You should wear more clothes like that.
4. I'm having a hard time pinning down your weight/body type. I only know that you are six feet tall (which is good height). In the first photo, you look okay but in the photo where you are in the squirrel costume and in the photo where you are in that white coat, you could lose a couple of pounds. You also need some more muscle, so start hitting the gym. Work on the forearms, shoulders, abs, triceps and biceps and don't neglect the lower body (calves and hamstrings). If you are not sure what to do, casually ask some of the employees at the gym (almost all of them work out regularly) to give you some advice on how to start out weightlifting. That's what I did. Also, hit the cardio treadmills while there. Start playing more sports that allow you to break a sweat like basketball, soccer, and/or tennis. Cut down on the fast food. You will start noticing results sooner than you expect. Believe me on this one.
5. If you have the money to get braces, then by all means, go for it. If not, then don't worry about it because your teeth are okay. Just make sure that you brush twice a day. I also don't think you need a tan.
I hope that I wasn't too harsh but I think that you have what it takes to get the girls you want. Just follow my advice and you will be a magnet. But always remember, you are the prize. So be confident when you talk to girls. They get nervous just like we do. So relax, because you are not alone. And if you get rejected, move on to the next. Every guy faces rejection. Dating and women are a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the better your chances of success will be. I hope this helps.
1. I know you like your moustache but it really NEEDS TO GO. A 23-year-old does not need a moustache. You don't need the moustache to get into an R-rated movie or buy alcohol because you are already of legal age. The less hair on your face, the better you will look. Right now, the moustache makes you look too old, too serious. A girl likes a guy who looks mature but not someone who looks like he can be her dad. Being clean-shaven is key.
2. I also think you should get a haircut. Your hairstyle and sideburns make you look as though you are a part of the 1960s era. Step into the 21st century. Get your hair cut LOW. Not bald but LOW, like this photo below for example:
http://cm1.dotspotter.com/media/0/31/11/Paul_Walker.0.0.0x0.280x280.jpeg
Get the haircut and either trim the sideburns or get rid of them altogether. Also, as someone here has mentioned, remove any hair between your eyebrows.
3. Wear some casual clothes. Regular T-shirts, light and navy blue jeans, and some short sleeved collar shirts. You should also try buying some khaki pants. You don't have to wear the latest brand names. Just something that looks presentable. The shirt you have on in the photo where you are lecturing is the best. You should wear more clothes like that.
4. I'm having a hard time pinning down your weight/body type. I only know that you are six feet tall (which is good height). In the first photo, you look okay but in the photo where you are in the squirrel costume and in the photo where you are in that white coat, you could lose a couple of pounds. You also need some more muscle, so start hitting the gym. Work on the forearms, shoulders, abs, triceps and biceps and don't neglect the lower body (calves and hamstrings). If you are not sure what to do, casually ask some of the employees at the gym (almost all of them work out regularly) to give you some advice on how to start out weightlifting. That's what I did. Also, hit the cardio treadmills while there. Start playing more sports that allow you to break a sweat like basketball, soccer, and/or tennis. Cut down on the fast food. You will start noticing results sooner than you expect. Believe me on this one.
5. If you have the money to get braces, then by all means, go for it. If not, then don't worry about it because your teeth are okay. Just make sure that you brush twice a day. I also don't think you need a tan.
I hope that I wasn't too harsh but I think that you have what it takes to get the girls you want. Just follow my advice and you will be a magnet. But always remember, you are the prize. So be confident when you talk to girls. They get nervous just like we do. So relax, because you are not alone. And if you get rejected, move on to the next. Every guy faces rejection. Dating and women are a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the better your chances of success will be. I hope this helps.
tony-montana
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LOL!Warrior74 said:
umm so anyway.. where the fuk is this guy?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nightcrawler
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your favorite movies are bambi and pocahontas.
fail.
fail.
Lexie
Don Juan
As a female, I agree %100 with this advice. The first two are a MUST. You are not unattractive, it is all about style here. Just these three changes (which don't even require a lot of effort) will make a big difference. And think about it, most girls don't enjoy kissing hairy lips. My guess is, you're just not used to seeing yourself without a mustache, but it probably looks fine.Juan_Man said:
For clothes, go to Gap. You really can't go wrong, as their clothes are very basic and work on everyone. Don't tuck in your shirts
Please keep us updated!
And your cat is adorable!!
Here is you with whiter teeth a tan and no stache....
u look fine with ur goofy hair if u fix the above things
http://i34.tinypic.com/2h8akpj.jpg
u look fine with ur goofy hair if u fix the above things
http://i34.tinypic.com/2h8akpj.jpg
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
you need to get some sideburns and get a short hair cut. Go to the gym everyday.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sprint
Don Juan
stop replying.
this is obviously a troll or a joke. the guy in the picture looks like a loser so stop saying he's attractive. The person who posted this wanted to see what people on here would say and he's getting a good laugh i bet.
besides he hasn't replied once and probably joined the day he made this thread.
this is obviously a troll or a joke. the guy in the picture looks like a loser so stop saying he's attractive. The person who posted this wanted to see what people on here would say and he's getting a good laugh i bet.
besides he hasn't replied once and probably joined the day he made this thread.
suavesuave
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u are not unattractive. you look funny.