"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Playing @ Clubs

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Ok, so I frequently go clubbing. I really want to know how the game is played there. Even though ive been going clubs for ages, I havent fully found a successfull tactic.

You know in clubs its quite different.You know..loud music, wild atmosphere, dancing, moving. There's ALOT of eye contact but no action, for me atleast. Im really out of ideas..how can i approach a girl? I just cannot go to her and talk to her. This wont happend. Besides, i barely hear a sentence in clubs. Most of the times , there's strong eye contact- you know, waiting for the move, but what move man? I just cannot go there look like an ass and start talking to her. It's a fact that women wait for men to do the first move right?.


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Clubs are actually really easy. Just start dancing with them. Maintain strong eye contact, and SMILE. Act like a doof if you have to. If you can keep them smiling consistantly, you shouldn't have to worry about getting shot down. If she's dancing, acting like she has no idea who are and doesn't WANT to know who you are, back off and find someone else. If everything goes well, pull them over to a quieter area of the club and get their phone number.

Piece of cake.
 
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make sure you like the music that you're going to be dancing in.
 
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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
make sure you like the music that you're going to be dancing in.
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I think common sense would dictate that, man. ;)
 
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work on your dancing..
be the sexiest and best dancer there

where something sexy

just go upto HB's and say hi..introduce your self...dance and have fun!
piece of cake...
don't stay in one spot for too long..keep roaming around and meet as many ppl as you can

get loosened up with a drink

and most importantly do a search on this forum..there is heaps of clubing tips on it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well i do wear sexy clothes, and i do look sexy. I've been in clubs for many years and i've learn to dance well, not showing off with too many stupid and extra moves, just enough body dancing with beat. Hmm , I guess my problem is approaching a girl. I mean i do it all except actually talking to her..


Thank you for all the advice
 
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