"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Playing @ Clubs

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Ok, so I frequently go clubbing. I really want to know how the game is played there. Even though ive been going clubs for ages, I havent fully found a successfull tactic.

You know in clubs its quite different.You know..loud music, wild atmosphere, dancing, moving. There's ALOT of eye contact but no action, for me atleast. Im really out of ideas..how can i approach a girl? I just cannot go to her and talk to her. This wont happend. Besides, i barely hear a sentence in clubs. Most of the times , there's strong eye contact- you know, waiting for the move, but what move man? I just cannot go there look like an ass and start talking to her. It's a fact that women wait for men to do the first move right?.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clubs are actually really easy. Just start dancing with them. Maintain strong eye contact, and SMILE. Act like a doof if you have to. If you can keep them smiling consistantly, you shouldn't have to worry about getting shot down. If she's dancing, acting like she has no idea who are and doesn't WANT to know who you are, back off and find someone else. If everything goes well, pull them over to a quieter area of the club and get their phone number.

Piece of cake.
 
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make sure you like the music that you're going to be dancing in.
 
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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
make sure you like the music that you're going to be dancing in.
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I think common sense would dictate that, man. ;)
 
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work on your dancing..
be the sexiest and best dancer there

where something sexy

just go upto HB's and say hi..introduce your self...dance and have fun!
piece of cake...
don't stay in one spot for too long..keep roaming around and meet as many ppl as you can

get loosened up with a drink

and most importantly do a search on this forum..there is heaps of clubing tips on it!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well i do wear sexy clothes, and i do look sexy. I've been in clubs for many years and i've learn to dance well, not showing off with too many stupid and extra moves, just enough body dancing with beat. Hmm , I guess my problem is approaching a girl. I mean i do it all except actually talking to her..


Thank you for all the advice
 
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