"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Players: Hated or Loved by Women?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scion

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they want to hate them but they are ultimately drawn to them
 

eaglez1177

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^Exactly
 

DJDanny

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I think the very definition of being a player answers that question, you're not a real player if women aren't drawn to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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horaholic

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dumbest question ever.
 

Ilovewoman

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Well it depends on their period I mean it is close to their period they wan't a man man with psycotic trails and players often play *****y

and the rest of the time

family man :p
 

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Loved by women who think they can tame them, hated by women who fall in love with him.
 

Badmannaz

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a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
 

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Badmannaz said:
a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
sure, that would be a true player, a master of the player game. But even this guy would have women that hate him, you can't please everyone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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The answer is both, as Cinamon alluded.

Remember, the ability to generate love or hate in women is a plus in your book.

AFCs generate indifference, game over.
 
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