"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Players: Hated or Loved by Women?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scion

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they want to hate them but they are ultimately drawn to them
 

eaglez1177

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^Exactly
 

DJDanny

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I think the very definition of being a player answers that question, you're not a real player if women aren't drawn to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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horaholic

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dumbest question ever.
 

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Well it depends on their period I mean it is close to their period they wan't a man man with psycotic trails and players often play *****y

and the rest of the time

family man :p
 

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Loved by women who think they can tame them, hated by women who fall in love with him.
 

Badmannaz

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a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
 

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Badmannaz said:
a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
sure, that would be a true player, a master of the player game. But even this guy would have women that hate him, you can't please everyone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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The answer is both, as Cinamon alluded.

Remember, the ability to generate love or hate in women is a plus in your book.

AFCs generate indifference, game over.
 
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